so i found out the other day my mother is finally divorced yip yip horray..thank god no offense my step dad was a controling ass that my mom is much better with out.. i have the most amazing brother from it ..so he was good for something hahaha..

my mom is hoping to make it out to calgary this summer and when she does i hope to get a happy divorce cake made and have a little party for her

she deserves it..she had me at 17 alone and raised me alone for years she dedicated her time to raising me and then she did find hapiness for 15 years they travelled and had jacob and i was so happy i had already had logan when jacob was born logan was 4..its funny jacob is auncle to a 14 year old and well now a 4 year old it makes for funny family time..

so i thought i would try my hand at blogging ..as i am horrible at staying in touch with people ..so i figured this would be a good way to no longer feel guilty for not calling everyone or emailing them all the time..

this is a picture from our wedding day Dec 8 2005..a very short and brief background .. met Jeff July 4.2003 ..i was not looking for love at that point but found it we moved in together Oct 03..and he asked me to move to Victoria with him Jan 04..so i said yes after asking Logan his opinion.. and we moved June 04.. we drove from Montreal to Victoria and had a wonderful time along the way..only to find out in Edmonton that we were pregnant.. fast forward Dec 04 Jeff asks me to marry him..march 05 mason born..Dec 05 married in Jamaica.. making us a very sweet happy family

now we are 2009 and i am still madly in love with Jeff.. he is my perfect match my imago match ..Harvel Hendrix wrote this book that i took in a summer class at Concordia on relationships in adulthood and i think Jeff was what i was looking for ....we have since moved to calgary and i have left behind a group of friends that i had dreamed of having .. the friends i made in victoria are all different yet we all get along so well even the hubbies and kids or partners and kids...i hope i can find that or something similar here in calgary...but what ever we do make here will never replace what we made in victoria these are people that i will be friends with for a eternity..

each is different and unique..and i am happy they are all special to me..