mason is 4

well i cant believe it but mason has turned 4..i am starting to feel old... ok maybe not..he had a small little party with some friends of his in the neighbourhood..he wanted to invite all his friends from his old house.. ohh how he misses them all.. ok well so do jeff and i.. we miss the life long friendships that we made..and the get together and jeff misses his walks and the conversations... but he gets vacation time soon... as of may so we are trying to plan a week to go back to Victoria...now that gets me excited..

ok back to mason..his party was great it was transformer themed ..and the cake well i did not find a transformer one so he had hot wheels cake which he loved..he enjoyed it.. i did a shamrock craft with the kids and they played had some cake , cheesy and peanut butter and jam Sammie's at masons request.. and we did pinata.. fun was had by all..

then after a tuckered mason went to bed we did the traditional balloon filing his room after 140 balloons later ..it looked wonderful he woke up and all we heard was what the ..hello anyone there..it was funny he has turned into a little funny man ..we brought all the balloons down from his room and put them at our front door and took pictures and then we took skewers and popped them all .. OK fun was had by mason, Logan, mommy and daddy we can all be big kids at heart

march already

so it seems that when you talk honestly with your child it doesn't always go well.. so Logan asks me how old i was when i had sex for the first time.. i tell him well 14 with my first long term b/f who i happened to date for 3 years..so it was all good i explained the being in love feelings and all that stuff that goes along with being or feeling ready and peer pressure..
then he says mom that's kind if sluttish ..my eyes bogged out of my head did my son just say that word..so it seems the double standard still fits so if a girl has sex she is slutty if Boy has sex he is cool.. i had to explain that that usually applies to more than one partner and that.. so in the end i was not sluttish i was a responsible teenager in my sons eyes..

ahhhh it was hard to hear that but it was nice to explain feelings and double standards and all that stuff.. i am hoping with being so open and honest he doesn't ever think sex is dirty or wrong and is open to all that it entails with love and intimacy and he is comfortable with himself and that

sex can and is a wonderful thing if used wisely..hahaha that was funny