march already

so it seems that when you talk honestly with your child it doesn't always go well.. so Logan asks me how old i was when i had sex for the first time.. i tell him well 14 with my first long term b/f who i happened to date for 3 years..so it was all good i explained the being in love feelings and all that stuff that goes along with being or feeling ready and peer pressure..
then he says mom that's kind if sluttish ..my eyes bogged out of my head did my son just say that word..so it seems the double standard still fits so if a girl has sex she is slutty if Boy has sex he is cool.. i had to explain that that usually applies to more than one partner and that.. so in the end i was not sluttish i was a responsible teenager in my sons eyes..

ahhhh it was hard to hear that but it was nice to explain feelings and double standards and all that stuff.. i am hoping with being so open and honest he doesn't ever think sex is dirty or wrong and is open to all that it entails with love and intimacy and he is comfortable with himself and that

sex can and is a wonderful thing if used wisely..hahaha that was funny